How to Be Un-Retainable: Behave Like Dr. Troll
๐ก๐ผ๐ ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ฎ๐น.
But many act this way (๐ฉ๐ค ๐ฉ๐๐๐๐ง ๐๐๐ฉ๐ง๐๐ข๐๐ฃ๐ฉ).
Many attorneys ask me for referrals to other experts
โ๐๐๐ my response: Pay me a finder's fee
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My response: Here are 3 experts and their emails
Many experts who are starting out as me for advice
โ๐๐๐ my response: Pay me for 15 minutes of my time
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My response: Here is my number, let's chat
Many LNCs message me to explain anesthesia topics
โ๐๐๐ my response: Pay me via Stripe invoice
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My response: Here is the explanation to XYZ
๐๐ช๐๐จ๐จ ๐ฌ๐๐ค ๐ฌ๐๐ก๐ก ๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐๐ก๐ก๐๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ฃ๐๐ญ๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐๐ข๐ ๐๐ฃ ๐๐ฃ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐๐๐จ๐๐ค๐ก๐ค๐๐๐จ๐ฉ ๐๐จ ๐ฃ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐จ๐๐ง๐ซ๐ ๐๐จ ๐๐ฃ ๐๐ญ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ฉโ
My takeaway from 3 years in this space:
โข Network
โข Be friendly
โข Pay it forward
โข Go that extra mile
โข Provide added value
๐๐ฉ ๐ฅ๐๐ฎ๐จ ๐ค๐๐ ๐ข๐๐๐ค๐ง ๐๐๐ซ๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐จ ๐ก๐๐ฉ๐๐ง ๐๐ค๐ฌ๐ฃ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ก๐๐ฃ๐
Just don't be that angry troll
That sends ugly InMail DMs
... ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐ ๐ฃ๐ค๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐๐ค ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐๐ง๐๐ฟ
๐ผ๐ฃ๐ฎ ๐จ๐ช๐๐๐๐จ๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ๐จ ๐๐ค๐ง ๐ค๐ฉ๐๐๐ง ๐๐ญ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ฉ๐จ ๐จ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ฉ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ฃ ๐ฉ๐๐๐จ ๐จ๐ฅ๐๐๐?